16 & 0: Expected by None, Prayed for by One

Mar 1, 2024 | Faith & Miracles

Young woman kneeling on tennis court at sunset, hands clasped in prayer, head bowed

Hands clasped, head down, the kind of prayer that happens off the scoreboard.

When I was a freshman in high school, I tried out for the tennis team.  Competition with other schools hadn’t begun, and team members played matches with each other during practice.

I knew I was a mediocre player, but I didn’t know just how mediocre.  I guess I was pretty bad.

After one practice, feeling down in the dumps about losing a match to one of the star athletes of our high school (I didn’t have a chance!), I remember being in the locker room.  I was alone in a row of lockers, and I heard a conversation between two boys in the row next to mine.  They didn’t know that I was only a few feet away.

One fellow said to another, “Who did you play today?”  The other, the star athlete that I truly looked up to, said, “Chet Weld.”  Then they each had a good laugh about how easily the superior player had beaten me.  Now I felt even worse.

That night as I was lying in bed, I said a prayer: “Lord, help me to be captain of the team by the time I’m a senior.”

Well, I practiced all winter at an indoor backboard downtown in Columbus, Ohio.  Also, I shoveled snow at a nearby girl’s school in order to hit against the tennis backboard.  I hit and hit and hit.  When I could find competition in warmer weather, I played and played and played.  I did that throughout the rest of my high school years.  Shoveling snow and playing as much as I could.

In my junior year, I beat the regular third man in an intramural match, edging ahead of the other boys my age and earning a varsity position.  Also, that year, the team voted on who would be captain of the team for my senior year.  I was elected.

In my senior year, I was also “first man” and our record against other teams in the city was 16-0.  We were the only undefeated team in the state that year.

I think that faith in God and hard work pay off.  I think that God has made ALL of us to be overcomers and that our destiny is to be exceptional in many ways.

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